Molly Johnson Stracuzzi: Dad's turn to share his tips

On Mother's Day, I shared with you design tips that I've picked up from my mom over the years. As we honor our fathers today, I'd like to thank my dad for the way he has shaped my design style.Architecture: Over the years I have come to appreciate architecture, and this is largely due to my father. I would pick a structure with good bones but in bad shape over new with no character any day.

Spatial layout: Sometimes my husband will come home to boxes piled up or a piece of plywood propped against a chair in the middle of the room."What are you doing now?"

"I had to know what it would feel like if we move that wall over here," I say.

My dad pays a lot of attention to the spatial layout of things, and rightfully so. When you are in a space that just works, it's not usually the drapes or the décor. It's the functionality and proportions that simply fit.Quality materials: My dad is all about quality and an authentic look, and there is no such thing as a short-cut or skimping when it comes to his designs. With most materials, you could easily get by with a veneer, a cheaper metal, etc., but I'm convinced my dad gets a certain satisfaction knowing the particular item is the real deal, even when no one else does.

A tool for everything: I'm still working on this one.While my father has a tool for any task imaginable (and a proper place for each one!), I'm ashamed to admit that I have been using a paint scraper as a flat-head screwdriver since we moved into our home more than two years ago. I aspire to use the right tool for the job, but most of the time I end up making do with whatever is convenient and available at the moment.Wood: My dad loves pretty wood, as do I. Raw or oiled in particular. I'm thankful for this appreciation I've inherited, and I don't think I'll ever get tired of or our butcherblock countertops or Ipe floors.

Research and development: Remember a while back when I mentioned the 52 floor plans I drew for our 8-by-8-foot bathroom remodel? Well, I have my father to thank for that quality.He is one to thoroughly think through every possibility and months (and sometimes years) later decide on the proper design. He is very patient and uses the existing space until it reveals what he should change and why and how. And as for researching materials or products, if it exists, he can find it. He's always up for a good challenge.Reveling in the small moments: Whether in a hotel lobby, a restaurant's courtyard or even a sailboat, I remember times from my childhood when my dad would drawing attention to a certain detail or moment. He would get a little twinkle in his eye and say, "They got it right, didn't they?"Happy Father's Day to all of the hard-working, loving fathers out there. Thanks for all you do and all you are!

10 Tips for new dads « BaiBoo

New dads are seemingly left in the dark when it comes to new babies and postpartum moms. Here’s some tips:

Remember that babies aren’t really breakable. Don’t be afraid to hold yours! Ask someone who is around to show you some great holds for little ones whether it be a midwife, doctor, nurse, confinement lady, mom, relative, friend, etc. If you are feeling left out talk to your wife about it. Chances are it’s not on purpose. New moms often have emotional ups and downs that are not predictable. Be supportive and offer an ear when possible. Learn the warning signs of postpartum depression and seek help if the situation is heading out of control. Support her with breastfeeding. Tell her that you’re proud of her and protect her from well meaning but negative comments about breastfeeding. Take a breastfeeding class during the prenatal period if possible. Help with the other children or household. Remind mom to let the house go and to focus on her recovery and the new baby. New dads can also experience the blues or postpartum depression. Much in your life has changed and its important to realize this and get help if you need it as well. Remember that the only thing you can’t do is breastfeed. You can change diapers, soothe a crying baby, carry the baby, bath the baby, play with the baby, anything the baby needs done – you can do it also . If you need help ask for it. Know who to call in your area for help and support whether it be a doctor or midwife, a confinement lady, lactation consultant, or the local babysitter. Mom is going to need extra sleep and care while her body recovers. Get up with the baby when you can. Bring the baby to her in the middle of the night if possible. If you must go back to work check in with her during the day. Perhaps surprise her with some healthy take out food or fresh flowers. Remember that adding a new baby to the mix is always going to stir your life up a bit, even if it’s not your first baby. Learning to live with another human being takes time. Give yourself a break if you need it as well.

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